Being a former overweight female ...I find it hard?

i am currently a larger lady, and have your issues. when i asked my hub, he said he doesnt really noticed nit picky things like this, but if need to give and answer, he'd perfer the overweight....stretch marks don't bother him as much as th eloose flabby skin that can occur with weight loss and usually require surgery to 'tighten' the areas.