My clit is flabby and long what can I do with out my parents known?

Hi i'm just after turning 14 and i've noticed recently the past 3 or 2 years my clit is flobby and long and its really embarrasing as i'm geting sexually active with my boyfriend,i'm not a virgn but I want to go the doctors to find out whats wrong with my clit?I have told nobody as um really embarrased but can I go the doctors because with out my parents or do I have to be with someone over 18?And if I go the doctors with my parents will they say if im a virgn or not as my mam dosnt no that I am not a virgn, it would be really greatful for your advice thanks Amy. P.s I live in Ireland